Monday 29 June 2015

Lessons for Life #86


Everyone on this earth can't be perfect. You will get this line if you have seen one of my recent posts in defense of being average. Each one of us is busy trying to be best for the world. But we forget the fact that most of the people on earth are average.

Being average is not a bad thing. It's okay. And its far better if you can make your parents happy while being average. You don't need to prove to the world that you are best, you just need to make your parents proud of you for what you are doing even being an average person.

Sometimes we make them proud of ourselves just by accomplishing small things and we don't even realize that they are proud of us because of the fact that we think small accomplishments don't count much.

If your parents are proud of you and you are blessed by them, that's the thing which should matter you the most. There's a reason parents are considered next to God or even sometimes more than God. So next time you wanna do something, do it for making your parents happy and not the world. 

The Blame Game


Worth a read...

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER :
The husband just said "I am with you Darling" The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY
This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

Saturday 27 June 2015

The Banana Experiment


Checkout this awesome experiment. The experiment will leave you amazed and make you think. They made it with simple tasks and their idea was genius.

The Experiment
A group of scientists placed 5 monkeys in a cage and in the middle, a ladder with bananas on top. Every time a monkey went up the ladder, the scientists soaked the rest of the monkeys with cold water. After a while, every time a monkey went up the ladder, the other ones beat up the one on the ladder.

After some time, no monkey dared to go up the ladder regardless of the temptation. Scientists then decided to substitute one of the monkeys. The first thing this new monkey did was to go up the ladder. Immediately the other monkeys beat him up. After several beatings, the new member learned not to climb the ladder even though never knew why.

The second monkey was substituted and the same occurred. The first monkey participated on the beating for the second monkey. A third monkey was changed and the same was repeated. The fourth was substituted and the beating was repeated and finally the fifth monkey was replaced.

What was left was a group of 5 monkeys that even though never received a cold shower, continued to beat up any monkey who attempted to climb the ladder. If it was possible to ask the monkeys why they would beat up all those who attempted to go up the ladder, I bet their answer would be: “I don’t know. That’s how things are done around here”


Conclusion:
Don’t follow others behaviors, think before you follow. Even though this story is debated to be not true online, you must agree that it sends a strong message about the society we live in today. Don’t miss the opportunity to share this with others as they might be asking themselves why we continue to do what we are doing if there is a different way out there.

Source: thespiritscience 

Friday 26 June 2015

World’s Largest Free Kitchen


A young man in a hot-pink turban raises his hands humbly as he sits crossed-legged on the floor. Into his raised hands falls a hot roti that he plops into the metallic tray in front of him. Next to him is an elderly woman wearing a saffron sari. She raises her hands next and is offered the same. On either side of them are hundreds of others, all seated cross-legged, and all with the same metallic tray.

Everyone eats the same food being dished out by the volunteers: dal, vegetables, and a thick South Asian rice pudding called kheer. It is lunchtime at the Golden Temple in Amritsar, India, and of the nearly 100,000 people who eat here on an average day, not a single one of them will pay for the food they consume. Who said there is no such thing as a free lunch?

A meal of this scale is made possible by a cadre of volunteers and an astonishing amount of raw materials: 12,000 kilos of flour,  1,500 kilos of rice, 13,000 kilos of lentils, and up to 2,000 kilos of vegetables. While much of the work is done by hand, a mechanized oven and conveyor belt turn out 200,000 rotis on a daily basis. The langar, as it’s called, never closes—and even late at night, pilgrims will stop by for a meal.

Nearly 500 years ago, a Sikh guru living in the Indian subcontinent introduced a revolutionary idea when it comes to the consumption of food. The idea was simple enough: a place should exist where everyone, regardless of religion or social status, could sit on the ground together as equals and eat the same food. The philosophy behind this free meal was a radical departure from the prevailing norms, where caste hierarchies decided what you ate and with whom you ate it.

Tradition tells that Guru Nanak, the first Sikh guru, disappeared at the age of 30 after having a vision. Three days later, he reappeared, saying only that “there is no Hindu, and there is no Musalman [Muslim].” With these words, and the belief attached to them that all are equal before God, the Sikh faith was born. At the core of Sikh teachings about equality and oneness is the langar, a free community kitchen where everyone is welcome regardless of social or religious distinctions. The langar at the Golden Temple is a living example of the Sikh faith’s rejection of the notion of caste.

Though Sikh temples around the world have free kitchens, the langar at this colossal complex of white marble and gold is the biggest and most elaborate. With more than 100,000 visitors on weekdays, and swelling up to 150,000 on holy days, the Golden Temple attracts more visitors than the most famous of India’s tourist destinations, the Taj Mahal. After visiting the temple, devotees and visitors alike move in droves towards the langar, where the hundreds of volunteers are busy preparing food around the clock. The food never runs out, and no one is ever turned away.

In a 16th-century India heavily organized by caste, the idea of the langar was both spiritually and socially radical. In one sense, it was a tool to alleviate hunger, and in another, a powerful call to social reformation.  The prevailing narrative of modern India is one that boasts the rise of new money and an increasingly powerful middle class, yet old social hierarchies tied to caste are still widely observed, particularly in rural areas. Discrimination based on caste has been illegal in India for more than six decades, but its presence is still felt in those areas of life where it always had a strong hold: religious worship, marriage, and food. In this climate, the langar remains almost as radical and revolutionary as it was 500 years ago.

“The Sikh gurus worked very intentionally to challenge social distinctions in various forms,” said Simran Jeet Singh, the senior religion fellow for the Sikh Coalition and a PhD candidate at Columbia University.

According to Singh, the writings of the gurus speak explicitly about the problem of caste and reject any concept in which somebody has any more divinity within them than somebody else. Beyond the langar’s use as a lever for a more egalitarian society, Singh pointed to its more practical contribution to a community in the Middle Ages, one without modern technologies for agriculture.

“To create a space where people could just come for sustenance was revolutionary in terms of creating healthier communities,” said Singh. Even today, there is a large population of impoverished people who stay outside of the Golden Temple and rely on it as their source of food. “It created a resource for sustenance while also challenging the social divisions that were prevalent at the time, and which continue to be prevalent.”

In India, the phrase “you are what you eat” takes on a special significance. For a millennium, food in India has been consumed according to the rules of this vast and informal system of social engineering. It is organized like a food chain, with those wielding power and influence at the top, and those marginalized at the bottom. Food has also been a trigger for intercommunal violence. Hindu-Muslim riots have been sparked by the throwing of a pig’s or a cow’s head into the grounds of a mosque or Hindu temple. In lavish areas in Mumbai, housing complexes may use a “vegetarian-only” clause to keep out Muslims, Christians, or lower-caste tenants who may eat meat.

The recent ban on consumption and slaughter of beef in some states has been a particularly heated issue. Dividing lines have been drawn along caste and religious lines. Most other communities, except religious Hindus, include beef in their diet, mainly because it is cheaper than other proteins.

Although Sikhs are not exclusively vegetarian, the langar at the Golden Temple serves only nourishing vegetarian meals. The volunteers here come from different faiths and socioeconomic backgrounds. They are young, old, and in-between, and work in a highly efficient, almost machine-like way. With each onion chopped or roti flattened, you can hear them chant, “Wahe Guru…Wahe Guru,” invoking the name of God.

One of the volunteers at the langar is Sukhdev Singh, a 55-year-old Sikh devotee from Fresno, California, who moved to Amritsar in 2013. Singh, with his flowing ivory beard and Khalsa blue vest, could easily be mistaken for a temple elder, yet he is one of the hundreds of people who flock to the kitchens of the Golden Temple daily to volunteer. Though today it costs tens of millions of dollars to run this kitchen, Singh reminds us that Guru Nanak began the langar with only 20 rupees and a handful of volunteers. Even with the astronomical cost, Singh says the donations for the cost of preparations are offered up to two years in advance in some cases. For the largely anonymous group of donors and volunteers, keeping this kitchen running is a religious and social obligation.

“There are only three things in our religion,” said Singh. “Chant the name of God, sing religious hymns, and volunteer. I work as long as my legs allow me to stand.”
 
Source: munchies.vice.com

Thursday 25 June 2015

I'm an INDIAN


Now this friends, is my 200th post. It feels good to cross this feat of having published 200 posts. Now I believe that one should never forget his/her roots. I'm an Indian and very proud of it.

This video of about 2 minutes or so will tell you some things about India like there are 1.3 billion Indians, we are the world's 3rd largest economy, our food is delicious and so on.

Have a look and be proud to be an Indian..!!
JAI HIND

Wednesday 24 June 2015

In Defense of Being Average


Recently I came across this wonderful article, "In Defense of Being Average"



Failure is part of Learning






As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not. He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away.
 

 “Well,” trainer said, “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.” The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were. 

Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before? Failure is part of learning; we should never give up the struggle in life.

Friday 19 June 2015

13 types of Humbleness(Daya) : Bhai Guriqbal Singh Ji



Guriqbal Singh (Gurdwara Mata Kaula) is a well known Punjabi Religion artist. He is well known for his melodies songs. One of his popular album is Chariya Sodhan Dharat Lukaie. Here I'm talking about the weekly program which used to happen every Thursday around June 2012 in different parts of Amritsar wherein Bhai Guriqbal Singh Ji described the 13 types of Humbleness(Daya).

He described each type of Humbleness each week. I'm attaching the video links of those 13 programs here. The videos are in "Punjabi" language.

1. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=r658HGHi6JU
2.  https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=E5COVRdt238
3. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LlsO_2zznwg
4. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GyBdF1624MQ
5. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pDyNmQaI9uQ
6. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Bq_SlXQVTsA
7. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=U54pZEf1-PE
8. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_C0olLjsv4A
9. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1bkFKfq9wco
10. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=W882DfSee7s
11. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VdB--1ws7p4
12. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5UGINs1Hd98
13. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=u7At-VR5gCE

Once you see all or even some of these, I'm sure they will definitely change the way you think and act in today's world.

Source: youtube & sikhnet

Friday 12 June 2015

Jarnayl Hari Singh Nalwa: Movie Coming Soon


Toronto (June 10, 2015) – BMO IFFSA | PIFF Toronto 2015 organized a five-day film festival from 14th–18th May. The variety of 40+ events were held in 6 different cities in GTA.

On this occasion, Mandeep Aujla, as CEO of Aujla Innovations Inc., and on behalf of Crazy Cub Animation Studio announced that they are making a 3-D animation film. The topic of the film will certainly bring back memories of the Golden period of Sher-e-Punjab, Maharaja Ranjit Singh. “Jarnayl Hari Singh Nalwa” movie is based on some real life incidents from his life.  Sardar Hari Singh Nalwa, was Commander-in-chief in Maharaja Ranjit Singh’s army.  He has the honour of being the only general to ever conquer Afghanistan. It was because of him that the frontiers of Sikh Empire extended beyond the Indus river right up to the doors of ‘Khyber Pass’. 

Have a look the teaser and be ready for this one.  For more details follow the link mentioned in the source below.

Source: sikhnet

Friday 5 June 2015

Extra-Terrestrial: Fantasy or Realty


Here in this video is the former Minister of  National Defense of Canada Paul Hellyer giving full disclosure within  parliament about the UFO coverup stories and ET contacts we have made. He explains in front of a room of government officials that there are over 80 species of aliens we are aware of, and 4 of them in particular that we have made direct contact with on earth.

Video Source: youtube

In depth article: spiritscience
here is the former Minister of National Defense of Canada Paul Hellyer giving full disclosure within parliament about the UFO coverup stories and ET contacts we have made.  He explains in front of a room of government officials that there are over 80 species of aliens we are aware of, and 4 of them in particular that we have made direct contact with on earth - See more at: http://www.spiritscienceandmetaphysics.com/the-5-main-extraterrestrial-races-in-contact-with-earth-right-now/#sthash.ulxgSlGI.dpuf
here is the former Minister of National Defense of Canada Paul Hellyer giving full disclosure within parliament about the UFO coverup stories and ET contacts we have made.  He explains in front of a room of government officials that there are over 80 species of aliens we are aware of, and 4 of them in particular that we have made direct contact with on earth - See more at: http://www.spiritscienceandmetaphysics.com/the-5-main-extraterrestrial-races-in-contact-with-earth-right-now/#sthash.ulxgSlGI.dpuf
here is the former Minister of National Defense of Canada Paul Hellyer giving full disclosure within parliament about the UFO coverup stories and ET contacts we have made.  He explains in front of a room of government officials that there are over 80 species of aliens we are aware of, and 4 of them in particular that we have made direct contact with on earth - See more at: http://www.spiritscienceandmetaphysics.com/the-5-main-extraterrestrial-races-in-contact-with-earth-right-now/#sthash.ulxgSlGI.dpuf

Tuesday 2 June 2015

A message to all the Taxi Drivers


She was drunk and he has scratches on his arm - Watch this video(above) wherein cabbie narrate the story of what happened in his cab the night before.

This taxi driver drove a lady passenger to her hostel safe and sound. This is exactly what every woman expects while traveling late in the night. The short film was originally created solely for distribution on whatsapp amongst the cabbies of Mumbai. 

Source: indiatimes