Boys need to be taught different.

From the childhood the boys are taught that "Boys don't cry". This somehow make them think that they are superior to women and are stronger then them and can do whatever they want. So this thinking often leads them to use violence in their house with their wife.

They simple fact which can be revisited in childhood days to change this is to teach the boys that "Boys don't make others cry". You see the things we see in our childhood days have a lot of impact and influence on us. So the childhood is the only the good time to start with this change and teach boys a different lesson.